I have a friend who seems to have been dealt a bad hand of cards all of her life. Just when life would start looking up she would be dealt another one of life’s jokers. She would be “all in” when it looked like better luck might come her way. She realized several years ago that the hand she was hoping to be dealt, that in fact, she was dealing to others. She now lives her life, knowing that she is in as good of a place as she can be, by putting the needs of others “all in”.