Archive for June, 2013

Words and Actions

Sunday, June 9th, 2013
This is the third of three articles I am writing about the recent CNN article.
Excerpts below, are in quotations.
I had no idea, the long lasting damage words or actions can have on an individual. The memory of these issues are still adversely affecting individuals, decades later.
“These are issues as I’m driving across the country I’m hearing so much,” he says. “I’m having firsthand conversations with people losing loved ones because of suicide. I’ve had adults break down and cry 30 to 40 years later because of something that happened in high school.”
Words can hurt as much as your actions.
Words can comfort as much as your actions.
Choosing the latter is the only option.

Reminders

Saturday, June 8th, 2013
This is the second of three articles I am writing about the recent CNN piece, with my notes below.
The following are excerpts from that piece:
“He sets at least four alarms each day to remind him to think about others and what he can do to spread kindness. Small gestures can help folks get into the habit of being kind, he says.”         “If you want to say a prayer, or a moment of silence,” he says, that’s what you should do. “Whatever you need to do to honor someone.”
It is so easy to get caught up living life, that we often don’t remember goals we have set for ourselves. Most of us have phones that we can set daily alarms which remind us of something uniquely important to us. I have four daily alarms that remind me of the following:
7:11AM – Get up and help to make the world a better place.
12:34PM – Try to help as many people as I possibly can today
3:43PM – I have a moment of silence to honor the 343 Firefighters and 72 Law Enforcement who lost their lives on September 11th.
5:55PM – Embrace gratitude. Give back, at the very least, as much as you have been given.

Pride

Friday, June 7th, 2013
This is the first of three articles I am writing about the recent CNN piece. It is the biggest takeaway of the article.
The power of pride children have in their hearts for their parents is the highest honor for the parent and life lesson for children.
The following excerpts, as a parent, are the most important to me.
“He returned to his home near Cleveland, and the single father told his children that he planned to sell all his belongings and drive to university campuses across the country to talk about kindness. Daughter Lizzie, 23, says she and her siblings were taken aback but not surprised. They always said Dad was kind.
Not interviewed for the article, because of scheduling conflicts, was my 27- year-old son, Alex, who commented online: “Very proud of you dad! Keep up the good work.”                                                   “It was a different step than most people take in their life,” his 25-year-old son, Peter, says. “I was proud that he left and he was going to do something he felt was right and needed to do.”
I am the luckiest man on the face of the earth. -rv

A Very Nice Piece…..

Thursday, June 6th, 2013

A very nice piece, below, by Evelio Contreras of CNN, features One Million Acts Of Kindness
http://www.cnn.com/2013/06/06/living/evc-man-spreads-kindness/index.html?hpt=hp_bn11

Thank you Evelio, for seeing this great piece through to the end.
More features to follow, later this summer.

Kindness from A to Z, Antarctica to Zimbabwe

Wednesday, June 5th, 2013

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Living on a bus which measures 7′ x 12′ for nearly four years, without air conditioning, and without heat once the engine is off, has tested my resolve at times, to say the very least. The paybacks however, have been beyond any expectations I would have ever thought possible.
To be able to talk with people from all parts of the world about having an individual lifetime goal of One Million Acts Of Kindness has been the most rewarding to me. Knowing that by talking in person or to someone virtually, about something so important and that they are then spreading this message of kindness to family and friends in their country, inspires me to forge ahead with this ten year mission with increasing enthusiasm.
Introducing The Kindness Bicycle to my travels two years ago and riding for issues children have had to address at far too young an age, has offered comfort to those who have had to experience issues such as Bullying, Adolescent Suicide, Domestic Violence and Childhood Sexual Abuse. I also rode The Kindness Bicycle to honor Heroes: Wounded Warriors and Police & Fire Fighters killed in the line of duty. It is these Heroes who protect our liberties and freedoms and in most every case, serve as role models for our children. This Heroes ride culminated with the visiting of all 212 Firehouses, 76 Police Precincts, 4 Veterans Hospitals and many other First Responding Agencies, with over 1,300 miles alone, in the 5 boroughs of New York City.
In less than a year’s time, I will have ridden a distance of 25,000 miles for children, the very circumference of our beautiful earth.
Each and every one of us has a global reach with the Internet. I encourage you to help spread the goodness of your personal passion, as much as you can, to a world waiting to be comforted by its message.
Today’s photos show One Million Acts Of Kindness’ presence at McMurdo Station, Antarctica and on a home in Zimbabwe.

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Thank you to Betsy Blankenbaker, of the House of Loveness, for her great work in spreading the word of One Million Acts Of Kindness to the children of Zimbabwe.
Her blog link is below:
http://house-of-loveness.blogspot.com/2013/04/my-first-trip-to-zimbabwe-in-2008-there.html?m=1

Summer of the Volunteer: Your Children

Tuesday, June 4th, 2013

Tens of millions of kids across the country have a summer to celebrate being out of school in the very near future. What a great opportunity to play, travel or just relax. Three months of paradise for a child! Oftentimes, after a week or two of summer, children will be looking for structure to their daily routine.
There are opportunities for children, to round out their celebration of summer: volunteering.
Many of these opportunities can be great fun for your child, all of them are rewarding.
It’s up to you to inspire your children to spend part or all of their summer involving themselves in helping others. Make it fun! Help them find their passion at a young age. Have them get their friends involved or have parents of friends or classmates of your child help you to put together a team of kids. Great good will come to the child who pours his or her heart into a charity. This sort of activity will have long term benefit to every child who gives of them self. It is up to you to further inspire your child in creative ways, one of the best ways is to volunteer. It is also a great way for you to take stock of your own life and volunteer on your own or alongside your child. There is no greater role model for a child to witness, then a parent doing such beautiful service for others.
Check out www.compassionatekids.com for volunteer opportunities in your area.

Cap and Gown

Monday, June 3rd, 2013

6-3-13Sitting on campuses across the country this year, anxiously awaiting their degrees, were nearly 1.8 million college students dressed in cap and gown.
A new beginning was ahead for all of them. A lifetime of opportunity for them, to help themselves and to help others.
The best time to start a new undertaking is when there is a defining juncture in one’s life. Partnering service along with a new career for these graduates can make huge impact in the lives of everyone concerned.
Congratulations to all of the individuals who are now headed out into the world to do great work.
A wonderful resource to find organizations in need of your expertise is, www.serve.gov